
Category: Victims of Abuse
Valerie Clay helps you to break free from past abuse by learning how to let go!


Forgiveness
Have you ever noticed things like money, bills, home, and work issues usually don't even compare to the issues we have with other people? Our biggest problems in life usually aren't the challenges we face, it is usually the people we have to face. Many times those people are those who claim to love us.

When You Realize You Married a Jerk
While I am not an expert on marriage, I can tell what you what will cause a marriage to fail. I can look back and see where my own behavior caused issues in my past relationships. Focusing on the problem will not fix the problem...

Offended People
I recently wrote a post called, "Why Someone May Not Want to be Your Friend." There were too many reasons to list in that article as to why someone may shun you, so I decided to write this article on the number one reason why someone may not want to be your friend- offense.

Why Someone May Not Want to Be Your Friend
A friend of mine was complaining one time about how they have a hard time making friends and about how they feel shunned by crowds. This friend prompted an intriguing social study on my part.

Stop Being a Victim
When I was a kid I used to dream about what it would be like to be a mother. I would carry my baby dolls around and act like they were my kids, just as I am sure many of you did.When my brother was born I pretended like I was his mother, taking care …

Subtle Signs of Abuse
When abusive behavior is subtle, it can be hard to recognize especially when it is coming from someone you love...

Bitterness
I've always been an extremely forgiving person. It wasn’t until last year that I fully understood the vast sorrow of bitterness...

How to Handle Toxic People
Realizing that someone is like poison can truly be an eye opener! It is not always apparent at first because many times it is someone that you love. It is important to remember that toxic people don’t care about your desire to be respected. Toxic people only care about themselves. They will make you feel …

Break Free from Carbs
Carbs are a serious issue in the United States! We eat rice, pasta, unlimited bread, sweets, and sodas without giving it another thought. I spent two years researching different diseases and what effect they have on the body when many of my problems were coming from the way that I eat. After seeing probably 30+ …